One of the drawbacks of being in pro-blogging and engaging in various online / “virtual” types of businesses is that there will inevitably be people who misunderstand you and your career. In this day and age of broadband, mobile commerce and e- (or m-) everything, there will always be people who seem to be on the regressive side of the equation. Yes, even younger people—even younger than myself perhaps.
A couple of weeks back, I was at a relative’s house visiting with the wife and kids, and an uncle was presently having a business meeting (I was supposed to have been part of that venture, but I had been busy. Very.). Of course the laid back individual that I am, I was wearing my signature khaki shorts, plain T-shirt and leather sandals—my usual casual attire when not going to meetings or upscale places.
Kids needed milk so I went to the living room—where we had earlier set our things down—to get the big canvas bag we use to keep the kids’ bags and stuff for easy handling. It was also there where the meeting was taking place. I was introduced by our uncle to one of his associates. And she immediately noticed the bag, which had a big Pfizer logo emblazoned on the front.
“Are you a medical rep?” asked the besuited lady.
“Umm. No,” I responded.
My uncle said I was into various online ventures, and he also asked me how business was.
“Very busy lately,” I responded. “Many times I even stay up two days in a row just to get things done.”
“So you work at a call center?” the kind lady asked, probably thinking that the only people who stay up late to work are those in these offshored contact center industries.
“Umm, no. I work for myself. I write. I’m also in the business of providing content to online publications, and I do publish my work on my own websites,” I kindly explained, gesturing as how one would usually type on the keyboard.
Confused looks.
By this time I was sort of exasperated and said my good-byes, smiling politely.
I could only imagine how confused that young lady might have been (young being approximately the same age as I), encountering someone with no clear job description and probably not having a regular job at all.
For all she knows I might be just some unemployed guy bumming around at home.
I do have a job (or a business or a venture, or whatever you may call it). I do write for this great blog network, Bloggy Network, and I do consulting work with the company that co-owns Bloggy, and yes I’m trying to wrap up my government project that I started months ago. Oh yes, I do try to help other people GTD (get things done) with online productivity tools—pro bono, of course. However, like many entrepreneurs and netrepreneurs and freelancers, I work from my SOHO (small office/home office, which I usually consider to be my small—very—home office).
But most people would be baffled with the idea of anyone earning without having to wake up in the early morning hours and beating the rush hour traffic. For most, it’s the job title and job security that matter. But for me, I love the fact that I create, that I use my mind to think up great things and share them with the world just with a few strokes of my keyboard.
I write. And I’m glad to say for a fact that I’ve somewhat inspired—or even influenced—other people to do the same too, that is to make a living practicing their gift with the written word. They’re probably better than me at this, but I do believe that writing style is only as good as the idea that one is trying to convey and the effort and discipline that a person puts into his craft (or art, as I prefer).
To each his own, I guess.
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9 Responses
Janette Toral
May 29th, 2006 at 8:31 am
1Hi Angelo. Your post reminds me the days when I started freelancing in 1995 writing articles and eventually went full time writing and maintaining DigitalFilipino.com in 1999. Looking back now, the risk was all well worth it.
Just keep on doing what you are enjoying and not be bothered.
taorist
May 29th, 2006 at 12:50 pm
2You do GTD as well? Wow! How come we almost never read anything about this on your blogs (Except one in forevergeek)?
Lex
May 30th, 2006 at 11:02 am
3Most of the people in our society are oriented on the physical world kind of job and not much on the virtual world kind of work. Why? because the physical world offers a tangible perception of what is going on. The virtual world is some how still taking an abstract activity.
A salemans, for instance, in the physical world is perceived by most senses, ears, eyes, touch (handshake), the “personal appearance” kind of thing. I think these are the aspects that are absent in the virtual world and that’s why it has taken the abstract form.
ade
May 31st, 2006 at 1:31 am
4I’ve always wanted to get into problogging and online ventures as well, but I still don’t have the confidence. Thanks for that very candid story. I’ll know what to expect. :))
raymond
May 31st, 2006 at 5:54 am
5Explaining I’m a freelance is tough enough. How much more on explaining the terms and conditions on being in problogging, a problogger, SOHO, and venture capitalist. But once past these, I believe it’s all worth it – being able work on your own time and terms. Cheers to those who have taken the plunge!
jozzua
May 31st, 2006 at 9:03 am
6Keep the faith Angelo. People who change the world are usually the ones who were gutsy enough to go beyond what’s expected, and are not afraid to try new things- even make mistakes.
I always explain to people who do not understand this. Hey, you get a job, perhaps a good salary, but are you happy? What’s your life going to be in 10 years? Still stuck inthe office? More importantly, are you doing what you really like to do?
Entrepreneurs, in a way, are dreamers. We believe that there is more to life than a 8 to 5 job. There is a real chance to be wealthy, to go beyond just salaries.
Crazy as it may seem. Dreamers often change the world.
J. Angelo Racoma
May 31st, 2006 at 9:23 am
7Thanks for the comments, everyone.
@Janette – Wow, 1995. I was still running my BBS back then! The Internet was still quite expensive and websites still looked crappy.
@Taorist – Well, I try!
@Lex – You’re correct about society’s orientation towards the physical realm. Face-to-face interaction is still important in many fields. In that regard, a real handshake and an actual face-to-face conversation cannot be replaced by virtual counterparts.
@Ade – Sometimes it’s all about the confidence, and everything else will follow. I think you can probably do better than me in that regard!
@Raymond – Take the plunge! Nestea iced tea plunge! (Wow, wasn’t that an old commercial tagline?)
@Jozzua – Yes, we are dreamers. To quote Lennon,
Well, it’s probably a different aim that Lennon wanted in that song (i.e., communism, anyone? Or at least, the ideal form of “communism”). But my point is that dreamers are of a rare breed.
Lex
May 31st, 2006 at 12:57 pm
8You’re Welcome Bro, keep on blogging. I enjoy reading your articles.
IndieHype
April 22nd, 2007 at 11:23 pm
9Gus Van Sant to direct new Tupac film??!...
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